My Take on LOVE....

Watch out for love because it's not always a good thing. Love can be blinding and make you forget the real things. If someone is treating you bad but says they love you most likely that's not true. I mean think about it, if they loved you why would they be treating you as if they do not. All love isn't real it is often just a fantasy or need we have so we settle for any form of it we can receive. If that love comes in the form of a lie we will go with it even if we have the facts. But some love is real. Some love gives you the best and most complete feeling. You know it's love because you don't have to even think about it. You feel the love inside and you're happy. But how do we distinguish between what love is real and which is not? We feel good either way when we are being loved. If we are swept off our feet in either situation how do we know which is to our best interest to pursue. I feel if a person treats you well and there are no doubts in your mind about the type of person they are it is safe. If the person treats you well but there are always things being said about the type of person they are from outside sources then you should be cautious but follow your heart. If the person is treating you badly but then contradicting themselves by telling you they love you then it is not safe. No love is perfect but no love should be completely destructive. If you feel you're in a destructive love relationship I suggest you get out. It's easier said than done but you can do it! Don't be afraid to suffer a heartbreak because there are lessons in each and every one of them. Yes it can hurt terribly but God sent you that person to teach you a valuable lesson that will eventually help you in life if not instantly help you. 

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